Nikki Reed en Nina Dobrev sturen een krachtige boodschap naar vrouwen

Nee hoor, hier geen exen-ruzies te zien.

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Nikki Reed haalde gisteren via Instagram even keihard de geruchten neer dat er op de set van The Vampire Diaries veel ongemakkelijkheid zou zijn tussen haar, haar man Ian Somerhalder en zijn ex Nina Dobrev.

Nina - die van 2010 tot 2013 een relatie met Ian had en de populaire serie verliet in 2014, rond dezelfde tijd dat Ian en Nikki in het huwelijksbootje stapten - keert terug naar The Vampire Diaries voor het slot en de media dook erbovenop. Want zou het niet enorm ongemakkelijk zijn, je getrouwde ex weer moeten zien?

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Veel roddelbladen namen een loopje met het verhaal en claimden de afgelopen weken dat er 'jaloezie, ruzie en ongemakkelijkheid' zou zijn tussen Nikki Reed, Ian Somerhalder en Nina Dobrev. Daar is echter helemaal niets van waar, laat Nikki nu weten via social media.

Krachtige boodschap voor vrouwen

Nikki Reed postte een gezellig kiekje met Ian en Nina waarbij ze een krachtige boodschap schrijft voor vrouwen en exen wereldwijd. Want waarom zetten de media twee vrouwen - vooral als ze dezelfde man naast zich hebben gehad - altijd tegenover elkaar? En wordt er maar meteen vanuit gegaan dat ze elkaar haten? En wat voor boodschap stuurt dit naar jonge meisjes?

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For the last few years we thought addressing any baseless rumors with silence was the best way. Besides, who wants to respond to made up stories about "friends backstabbing friends", "cheating exes", or "cast members exiting shows" on low-brow websites like hollywoodlife that are just perpetuating trends that preceded us. Yuck. I now see that silence was taken as an opportunity to fill in the blanks with even more falsities, and juicer stories, and we, yes WE, believe we have a moral responsibility to young girls to end that narrative, because at the end of all of this, those young girls are the ones who lose. Their passion and endless devotion for a tv show is being taken advantage of, replaced with feelings of anger through divisive techniques, & even worse, their minds are being shaped & molded as their view of themselves, other girls, & what those dynamics should look like are being formed. So here's to putting an end to all those fake stories of on set jealousy, betrayal, made-up-friendships lost & women hating women. Because at the end of the day, that's what this is about: teaching girls that you have to hate other girls only breeds a generation of women who believe you have to hate other women. And that's what these magazines, websites and blogs don't understand. That is the harmful unintended consequence of their bullshit stories and we have a moral responsibility to fix that. Let's turn this page together, as we all walk into the next chapter peacefully. And finally, let's use this as an example of how important it is to stop this trend of writing horrible headlines about women, painting us as bitter, angry, insecure, heartbroken, childless, feuding, backstabbing monsters because whether we want to admit it or not, it changes the way all women view themselves. And shame on these websites for now targeting an even younger demographic, instilling this at an earlier age when girls are even more susceptible, more vulnerable and more malleable. When we write these headlines we teach hate. I've seen it firsthand. Let's shift what we put into the universe starting now, & hopefully we will start to see a shift in the way we treat each other & view ourselves❤

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Nikki schrijft:

'For the last few years we thought addressing any baseless rumors with silence was the best way. Besides, who wants to respond to made up stories about "friends backstabbing friends", "cheating exes", or "cast members exiting shows" on low-brow websites like hollywoodlife that are just perpetuating trends that preceded us. Yuck. I now see that silence was taken as an opportunity to fill in the blanks with even more falsities, and juicer stories, and we, yes WE, believe we have a moral responsibility to young girls to end that narrative, because at the end of all of this, those young girls are the ones who lose. Their passion and endless devotion for a tv show is being taken advantage of, replaced with feelings of anger through divisive techniques, & even worse, their minds are being shaped & molded as their view of themselves, other girls, & what those dynamics should look like are being formed. So here's to putting an end to all those fake stories of on set jealousy, betrayal, made-up-friendships lost & women hating women. Because at the end of the day, that's what this is about: teaching girls that you have to hate other girls only breeds a generation of women who believe you have to hate other women. And that's what these magazines, websites and blogs don't understand. That is the harmful unintended consequence of their bullshit stories and we have a moral responsibility to fix that. Let's turn this page together, as we all walk into the next chapter peacefully. And finally, let's use this as an example of how important it is to stop this trend of writing horrible headlines about women, painting us as bitter, angry, insecure, heartbroken, childless, feuding, backstabbing monsters because whether we want to admit it or not, it changes the way all women view themselves. And shame on these websites for now targeting an even younger demographic, instilling this at an earlier age when girls are even more susceptible, more vulnerable and more malleable. When we write these headlines we teach hate. I've seen it firsthand. Let's shift what we put into the universe starting now, & hopefully we will start to see a shift in the way we treat each other & view ourselves.'

Applaus.